time out connecting to host servers trying to join that game

Newbie Joined: Oct 19, 2004 Posts: 1 Location: USA

I am having problem joining a server in HL or ubi soft. When I try to join a game the game loads then trys to connect to the host server. then it times out. I can join a game in IL 2 FB Vs. 2.04 with an IP address, I can host a game in IL 2 FB Vs. 2.04, and others can join with my IP address, but I can't join a game through HL or Ubi it always times out trying to connect to the host server. I have a Speed Stream Modem 5200 and a Net Gear router 614v2. I have PnP turned on I have DMZ on and have ports 21000,20999,1708-1978,8888,45001 ports forwarded. I tryed changing the .ini file from 0 to 1 or was it 1 to 0 any way I put it back like it was from the start. I have had a lot of help doing what I did so far cause I know very little about computers, routers, and modems set ups.
Rudder

System Information
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Time of this report: 10/19/2004, 18:35:54
Machine name: ZEUS
Operating System: Windows XP Professional (5.1, Build 2600) Service Pack 2 (2600.xpsp_sp2_rtm.040803-2158)
Language: English (Regional Setting: English)
System Manufacturer: ASUSTeK Computer INC.
System Model: A7N8X2.0
BIOS: Phoenix - AwardBIOS v6.00PG
Processor: AMD Athlon(tm) XP 2800+, MMX, 3DNow, ~2.1GHz
Memory: 1024MB RAM
Page File: 325MB used, 2137MB available
Windows Dir: C:\WINDOWS
DirectX Version: DirectX 9.0c (4.09.0000.0904)
DX Setup Parameters: Not found
DxDiag Version: 5.03.2600.2180 32bit Unicode

Western digital hd 120gigs

Win NT: 5.1.A28 - Service Pack 2
hlpro.exe 3.7.0.74
aping.exe 1.0.0.16
dexec.exe 1.0.0.5
mswinsck.ocx 6.0.88.4
msvbvm50.dll 5.2.82.44
asycfilt.dll 5.1.2600.2180
comcat.dll 5.0.2600.1
ctl3d.dll No Version Info available!
ctl3dnt.dll No Version Info available!
oleaut32.dll 5.1.2600.2180
olepro32.dll 5.1.2600.2180
stdole2.tlb 3.50.5014.0